Ten Reason why Men should not be Ministers

Posted by Joel VandenBrink under

I believe that this list is a common one, but it is the first time I came across it, thanks to Justin Baeder over at www.radicalcongruency.com…..after reading it I am torn between laughter and tears.  I want to laugh because of the felt ridiculousness of some of these, but I want to cry because with the simple replacement of a few words in each reason and they suddenly become ‘real’ reasons that have been used against women for years.  Without further adieu, I invite you to laughter and tears….

10. A man’s place is in the army.

9. For men who have children, their duties might distract them from the responsibilities of being a parent.

8. Their physical build indicates that men are more suited to tasks such as chopping down trees and wrestling mountain lions. It would be“unnatural” for them to do other forms of work.

7. Man was created before woman. It is therefore obvious that man was a prototype. Thus, they represent an experiment, rather than the crowning achievement of creation.

6. Men are too emotional to be priests or pastors. This is easily demonstrated by their conduct at football games and watching basketball tournaments.

5. Some men are handsome; they will distract women worshipers.

4. To be ordained pastor is to nurture the congregation. But this is not a traditional male role. Rather, throughout history, women have been considered to be not only more skilled than men at nurturing, but also more frequently attracted to it. This makes them the obvious choice for ordination.

3. Men are overly prone to violence. No really manly man wants to settle disputes by any means other than by fighting about it. Thus,they would be poor role models, as well as being dangerously unstable in positions of leadership.

2. Men can still be involved in church activities, even without being ordained. They can sweep paths, repair the church roof, and maybe even lead the singing on Father’s Day. By confining themselves to such traditional male roles, they can still be vitally important in the life of the Church.

1. In the New Testament account, the person who betrayed Jesus was aman. Thus, his lack of faith and ensuing punishment stands as a symbol of the subordinated position that all men should take.

peace
joel

One Response to “Ten Reason why Men should not be Ministers”


Joel,
Thanks for having the humility to post this. It served to further inflame my anger against the ridiculous nature of male power structures in our churches. They sound crazy when you insert a masculine pronoun into those statements and yet, I’ve heard all of them stated with complete persuasion by those who oppose women in church leadership. Ohh…it makes me angry!
Haley

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